Me as a parent

1) No internet for my children except for school works. And I will be guiding it. 

2) No phones for my children except emergency cases until minimum 16 years old. 

3) No coming home late! Except I know the truth.

4) No television except on weekends. Weekdays only tutorial tv.

5) No coupling with anyone and I will have to know who do they like!

6) I would let them read books.

7) I will let my children go to Tahfiz school after finish SPM.

8) I will give them bedtime stories about the history of Islam.

9) Age 5 learn to solah and read iqra'

10) Age 7 will get rotan if they skipped solah.

11) i will make them hafaz al-kahfi sentence per sentence.

12) Teach them to lower their gaze from they're still small

13) teach them to wear proper dress. 

14) jemaah subuh, maghrib and isya'.

15) i will ask their problem, check pn them, ask their day, keep them company while they are studying and teach them too.

16) teach them about Islam and give them proper example.

The New Generation

Let me tell you what generation we've become..

1) we've become a generation where religions matters but practicing it doesnt.

2) we've become cold-hearted pricks where we see something/someone need help we hesitated to help them or worse we dont even help them with “dont get involved. it's dangerous” as an excuse.

3) we've bcm a generation “mind your own business” and it's generally our business. For example, muslims to see their brothers being transgenders/ lesbians/ gays/ bisexual. It's not about THOSE TRANSGENDERS OR GAYS OR LESBIAN DONT DO BAD THINGS TO YOU, BUT IT'S ABOUT AVOIDING FITNAH FOR OUR RELIGION BECAUSE YOU KNOW WHAT? YOU GUYS ARE BEING A DISGRACE AND WORSE THAN A PROSTITUTE. ok now. 

4) we've become a generation that's TOO INFLUENCED WITH TUMBLR, STUPID RELATIONSHIP GOALS THAT ARE UNREALISTIC AND NOT GOING ANYWHERE. Especially muslim? WHY ARE YOU GUYS WORSHIP/ADMIRE ALL THOSE RELATIONSHIP GOALS WHEN CLEARLY IT BRINGS YOU TO MAKSIAT!?

5) AND WHY IS THERE GAYS AND LESBIANS, TRANSGENDERS AMONG MUSLIM AT THE FIRST PLACE? If you guys want to be those, please choose another religion. 

6) we've become a generation where everything wants to be posted to the internet from the unecessary things to THINGS THAT SHOULD BE PRIVATE. And then blame someone for robbing you when you KEEP SHOWING YOUR WEALTH. 

2025

This is a list I'm doing for my ownself and what will I do and be doing. The list changes. Lets start off by;

1) it's 2015. In 10 years time, I wont be in my country. I will be somewhere over the seas, in a foreign country. Working in suits and a briefcase. I imagine myself a business woman, or a pa, or a secret agent working in a secret service.

2) or maybe I continued my studies in the London Business School. 

3) maybe I persue my degree in science or doing a research in related to human and humanity, or even universe. 

4) maybe I've bcm a speaker. Talking about humanity.